Hi Acra,
If you dislike the clan citadel so much, then don't have one, or if you do want one, then change your clan's rules to accomodate. In our clan it's a choice whether you visit, skill or cap in our citadel. For us, it's a game, so should be fun, so we don't force people to participate so it is totally a choice. The decision of those who choose not to participate in the citadel is respected and they are not pressured to participate, and nor does it affect their ability to be upranked.
We also don't lock our citadel plots. Our clanmates have worked hard to earn our skilling plots, so should be able to enjoy whatever skill they choose. With these relaxed rules, and total freedom of choice whether they participate, our clan has managed to reach Tier 7 with 3 avatars, and earn a clan mascot dragon.
If you're clan is having arguments about the citadel and it has attributed to a lot of rage and quarrels, then perhaps your clan need to look at the way you manage your citadel and why you're having those quarrels. It is possible to manage your clan's citadel harmoniously and with clanmates enjoying the experience and with respect for each other's contribution.
I'm sorry, but I don't agree there should be instant cap as a rare drop from bosses. That would be very unfair to skilling only clans, and other clans who don't boss. Aside from that, citadel capping is clan related to encourage clanmate's interaction and something the clan does together as a team, to benefit the clan as a team.
Take care and best of luck.
Cheers
Cherish
01-Oct-2016 17:02:35