Just because I have seen some pics on other websites when someone ragequits, I would suggest keeping the click-to-display.
Perhaps give fmods/community helpers the ability to toggle the click-to-display upon request?
And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known
This is the start. This is long overdue but it is a start.
I will be getting in contact with all the people I know who have quit. They quit because they thought this forum was left for dead. It isn't. Get your friends back here folks. Tell them the great forum depression is over.