I should point out most or all of my references are to points made by the OP. If you refer to the scenario in page 2 post 3, the User A/User B thing.
User A is the one engaged in activism by speaking up directly to User B. Activism is similar to the words in question (flaming), because it is more of an idea, with many different interpretations of how that plays out.
That's not really important. IMO User A should be allowed to engage in their activity without automatically inviting User B into the mix, especially when there is nothing actually being offered.
A rephrasing, an automatic disagreement, demanding answers, direct baiting. None of that is a valid response. Certainly not respectful to the user.
25-Sep-2023 18:18:28