Second, Discord is not a suitable medium for adults to have conversation in a civilized manner, in my eyes. The internet and its many social media outlets have led to great and beautiful occurences, but verbal abuse is not among them. I associate the two. Integrity and professionalism are more valuable than Gielinor's weight in gold. It is not worth anything to debase yourself with pettiness beyond what we have already achieved together. If you are benevolent and wish to lead, mind your tongue and your keyboard.
Third, blacklists had their use and should never have been removed, in my opinion. There exists a theory that in order to punish wrongdoers less often, one has to punish more severely. I ascribe to that theory. One warning is enough. You are adults. If you are benevolent and wish to lead, embrace discipline and its long-term benefits.
Fourth, in my view the only way this community will recover from its downward spiral is with strong leadership. A group that unites with a common goal in mind and dedicates time, charisma, energy, and intellect to achieve that goal is more powerful than any single leader. I have some charisma, a modest amount of intellect, some letters after my name, but not nearly enough time to fix you, my beloved community. If you are benevolent and you wish to lead, find a group to aid you.
Fifth, if you think kindness is a weakness, you may be strong, but you will never be a good leader. It is far easier to shoot a man than it is to thank them or hug them. The former requires a firearm, ammunition, aim, and an able finger. The latter requires you to humble yourself and love others. It also yields a much more rewarding harvest than any of the consequences present when you shoot a man. If you are benevolent and you wish to lead, never forget that love is more powerful than hate.
All that for a pile of bricks.
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