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Scouse
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I'm shocked i never noticed this thread earlier, it seems quite odd but in reality its actually a place for people who cant express feelings in case they upset others to say what they want to say but could never find anyone to say it to..

It is actually basically a rehab centre for people who have never been able to speak out actually open up without the fear of upsetting anyone else.

Much love

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25-Sep-2021 05:14:06

C a z
Jul Member 2005

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C a z said :
Thought I would bump this important thread.

Not much to update with regards to my mum, the cancer is growing and spreading to different bones.

She feels very unwell most mornings but come lunchtime feels quite a bit better! The local hospice have been to visit with mum and me just to go over how things are at present.

They have been AMAZING. Giving us both emotional support as well as helping her with choosing and getting good pain relief meds for her, and getting her a blue badge and benefits under the DS1500 rule form.

So, on a bright note, next week, me, hubby, mum and my children and my grandchildren are going to the south coast, in a large holiday let 200 yds from the sea (mum loves the sea).

Fingers crossed the weather will be a little kind....


Weather was kind :D Grandkids were a pain haha. Have pics and memories that are lush.
Remember Caz. Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

26-Sep-2021 00:48:06

C a z
Jul Member 2005

C a z

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Scouse said :
I'm shocked i never noticed this thread earlier, it seems quite odd but in reality its actually a place for people who cant express feelings in case they upset others to say what they want to say but could never find anyone to say it to..

It is actually basically a rehab centre for people who have never been able to speak out actually open up without the fear of upsetting anyone else.

Much love

Scouse - No words.


I'm glad we as a family chat openly about things. In fact others find it quite odd when we make jokes about stuff!!

My poor mums bankers face when we say how she needs to spend money before the inheritance tax gets it is a picture ;)
Remember Caz. Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

26-Sep-2021 00:51:39

Chief Elf
Apr Member 2017

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C a z said :
Scouse said :
I'm shocked i never noticed this thread earlier, it seems quite odd but in reality its actually a place for people who cant express feelings in case they upset others to say what they want to say but could never find anyone to say it to..

It is actually basically a rehab centre for people who have never been able to speak out actually open up without the fear of upsetting anyone else.

Much love

Scouse - No words.


I'm glad we as a family chat openly about things. In fact others find it quite odd when we make jokes about stuff!!

My poor mums bankers face when we say how she needs to spend money before the inheritance tax gets it is a picture ;)


When you mentioned using humour despite going through all that darkness, that was quite powerful!
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26-Sep-2021 03:40:47

C a z
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My brave mum grew her angel wings yesterday. She went downhill very fast and was in hospital from thursday evening. She was 77.

I stayed with her the whole time in there, but as seems quite common she waited to go when I popped out the room to get a drink. I went back in her room and found her as peace.

For her it was time, she was so poorly at the end. My heart is broken, I miss her so much already. I know it is all raw right now, but I want her here, I want to hug her again.

The first person who loved me unconditionally has gone, it hurts.
Remember Caz. Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

02-Apr-2022 21:11:49

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July 15, 2017 5:30 pm - is when I got the call that my Dad had passed away, age 63 from stage 4 lung cancer. This was one of the worst days I could think of, especially being away for work on a 12 hour shift.

Around about the same date, but back in 2020 my Aunty, who is dads eldest sister passes away from a heart attack while watching TV one night with her husband/my niece in the living room several hours before bed.

A few months ago now, a few days before I was due to go visit one of my cousin's who I haven't seen in about 9 years suddenly dies from an enlarged heart, that one really shook me wild.

Now here we are in 2022, and the start of January, one of my Aunties who I adored since a little child was doing puzzles/cross-words in the lounge room while drinking a tea, stands up go to the kitchen but suddenly falls to the floor having a heart attack.

That's my story of what has happened to me recently, I can't stress this enough - make sure you tell your friends, loved ones and whatnot how much you love them as we never know when our time is up.

My condolences to everyone on this post who has lost someone, if you ever need to vent my PM is open - please don't feel like you're alone :3

04-Apr-2022 09:04:26

Megycal
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Caz, I'm sending you virtual hugs. I understand how you feel, I lost my mum 30 years ago and I still sometimes dream she is alive. Cherish the memories of the good times.

@Nuzzled, Hugs for you too. You've had a lot of losses in those few years.

04-Apr-2022 10:22:26

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