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22-Oct-2014 02:27:44

Awesome041

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Tsun-Chan said :
School, we just sorta hung around alot. Lost touch to a certain extent, he refuses to get Facebook and as a far as I can tell he's working 4 jobs in order to afford a house. Another one lives too faraway although I can Facebook him at least.

Many others are those ones you sort of add just because, butt never really speak to.

I'd say it just happens, one guy I met we both said we had ADHD and then it sort of just idk, clicked? Also we'd talk about gaming and he was pretty laidback and not judge-mental, I like people like that. Basically things certain people in here get all rage* about he's chill with.

As for whether I'd ditch them if they broke the law, what? No, I've talked to people involved in murder, what's in the heart is what counts, guy was sorry and was tryna change his life plus he came from a rough area. People make mistakes, to ditch someone just because they make a mistake, too many video games mate (coming from me). And no I wouldn't ditch someone because they got a tattoo, lmfao you high right now?

Can't say I blame your friend about the facebook problem. It is easy to see why facebook is not liked. The origins of the idea starting from another source while someone else takes the credit. The stealing of information that did not belong to the site--pictures, words, information; the denial of information to others. The destruction of other perfectly good sites because of it. The tracking of the food supply as if it should be okay for them to know what customers are buying or eating. Then there is also the branding. Do truly great things ever need to affix a mark on something else or have a mark? In a way such a mark of permanency could be a mark of evil, as all things should have some degree of change. I also feel like my good people (or things or other beings) would never need to mark themselves or be marked, as you mention the heart thing above, what's in the heart and mind matters!

22-Oct-2014 10:48:31

Awesome041

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Friendships can form in lots of ways.

I remember trying to be friends with people I thought were attractive. Alternatively, others could have been intriguing and curious to me in some way. Or it could be something as simple as familiarity. I recall hearing that the two reasons people don't like one another are because they are exactly alike or completely different.

Without going too deep it is worth realizing there are different degrees of friendship. There also exists a question of what it means to be a friend. People might have different ideas about what it means for someone to be a friend, although one might characterize it with trust, loyalty, commitment, love, happiness, and the like.

22-Oct-2014 10:56:55

Awesome041

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Ins Wand 1s said :
Awesome041 said :
I remember trying to be friends with people I thought were attractive.

A trickle of water is deeper than you.

Maybe I deserve that. Do you know how to see past and overlook every characteristic of a person to be a true friend, though? Further than the first impressions you get, the clothes or wallet one has, the color of a person or some part of a person--the eyes or the hair--, beyond the face of a person, and the way they stand, mannerisms, gestures, or voice, beyond one's choices, thoughts, feelings, emotions, and personality, past the strength, smarts, or speed a person has, even past the fact that they appear in human form? Seeing beyond the shell and mask of a person is certainly not easy. So far as I know, only one person was ever possible to see/feel past my mask in real, physical proximity.

If you think being friends with someone beyond any defineable characteristic is easy, especially one you may think is attractive, then please do tell how.

27-Nov-2014 15:27:15

Coolinkgrl

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ChampionVrek said :
We don't have friends.

That's why we play Runescape.

Truth hurts.

But the friends I have made, it starts with someone having the courage, friendliness, or balls to talk to someone first. And I guess from there, if you talk enough, I think a friendship forms. Sadly, I'm not very good at this so I have very few friends. But it's nice if friendships form, the friends I have made are true blue, as corny as that sounds. And when I say "friends" I mean like 2 people. Yes, I know
-> DgRevolution <- is a friendly, all levels, teaching, non-leech/buy/sell dungeoneering friends chat :)

30-Nov-2014 07:03:57

Gemzorawr

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Mostly all the friends I've ever made happened unexpectedly, tho eventually you realize the effort needs to be equal on both sides to maintain a relationship. ¸,•°´`°•¸Gemzoraw*
Lifes short enjoy the ride

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30-Nov-2014 15:04:13

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