Part of my clan said they doesn't want to adapt bunch of strangers for citadel only. Part said, it is something new to achieve. I wanted citadel because I noticed that a lot other clans lost their best people, some joined citadel clans, newly made for getting T7 citadel together.
We lost a few who strongly disagreed but we still started building citadel. It was messy time. I had good hope that citadel gets fequent and useful updates and dedicated a lot love and attention to it. And yes, we made T7 and kept it shiny, we got dragon. The day we finished citadel we had few over 100 people and citadel required I think 50 visits per week? And it was still not mandatory.
EoC came meanwhile, numbers drastically dropped, I kinda begged people to log in and visit citadel. Now I saw it like Trojans horse at my backyard, just because citadel created the need to keep people online but EoC was massively unpopular and it splitted or killed many clans again.
RS changed tons over time, culture requirements were so low around us that my members said we really sound elitist now with no swearing and no bad word to each other or at least not in public, such a nice bunch of people. A lot of us were still the same from old wildy, first Godwars and minigames time. Many got p mod invite over the years because they deserved it.
People grew up, their interests and activities changed too, less or more. Some Pk addicts became skillers and PvM'rs. Some quiet boys grew up surprisingy social and great teamers. Some really modest nice people became co leaders.
That's why I say, focus on personality, make friends, recruit people who make you feel like you'll be friends forever.
A lot of other updates came, warbands almost splitted my clan at the start but I simply banned the co leader who was dragging people to his wbs fc. Over the years I had to a lot nice motivating and heartwarming things but also had to deal with nasty stuff and be simply blunt when needed.
10-Nov-2016 10:01:30