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Kiwi Magic
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And by the way Rooh and Tuffty are my best friends online. I really like them.
Thank you. I like you too.
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22-Mar-2023 13:54:42
Igerna
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Averia Light said :
Igerna said :
100% agree with you on that one. I believe punishments should start from low and gradually scale high, if bad behaviour continues. There always must be a direct consequence derived from your actions, but alternatives should be negotiated according to age and maturity. Otherwise, no learning will take place and probably the punished person will do exactly the opposite.
Would you count natural consequences as a direct consequence?
Igerna said :
I was raised in a mildly conservative (liberal conservative?) family, that allowed some liberty but this one was granted through actions.
I was raised ultra conservative, lol, so I feel this.
Regarding the first question, yes I would.
I have friends who were raised ultra conservative. For them, I'm a hippie lol (with all due respect) who brought some kind of enlightment to their lives. Yup, I totally corrupted them! MUAHAHA!
I giggled about the "Harry Potter" thing you mentioned: it also happened where I live. Local church went bananas when it became popular, but they didn't say a word when "The Lord of the Rings" or "Chronicles of Narnia" turned big, and both have lots of wizardry, an evil White Witch and a bloody (so epic and awesome) BALROG!
M8, I'm in my 30s now. In this hypothetical situation, I'd be the parent lol. And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known
Averia Light said :
Igerna said :
100% agree with you on that one. I believe punishments should start from low and gradually scale high, if bad behaviour continues. There always must be a direct consequence derived from your actions, but alternatives should be negotiated according to age and maturity. Otherwise, no learning will take place and probably the punished person will do exactly the opposite.
Would you count natural consequences as a direct consequence?
Igerna said :
I was raised in a mildly conservative (liberal conservative?) family, that allowed some liberty but this one was granted through actions.
I was raised ultra conservative, lol, so I feel this.
Regarding the first question, yes I would.
I have friends who were raised ultra conservative. For them, I'm a hippie lol (with all due respect) who brought some kind of enlightment to their lives. Yup, I totally corrupted them! MUAHAHA!
I giggled about the "Harry Potter" thing you mentioned: it also happened where I live. Local church went bananas when it became popular, but they didn't say a word when "The Lord of the Rings" or "Chronicles of Narnia" turned big, and both have lots of wizardry, an evil White Witch and a bloody (so epic and awesome) BALROG!
M8, I'm in my 30s now. In this hypothetical situation, I'd be the parent lol. And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known
23-Mar-2023 10:57:00 - Last edited on 23-Mar-2023 10:57:24 by Averia Light
Hope the Glue for a week helped the thread out.
Could get it again in the future.
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Could get it again in the future.
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24-Mar-2023 10:22:10
Averia Light
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SlR said :
Harry Potter and The Sunken Cost Fallacy, that might put them to sleep, but yeah. Maybe!
Good grief, you explain it in an age-appropriate way similar to death, sex, being annoying, and anything else.
I assumed you were an adult, so I used the proper word instead.
I'd assume the same but you're making it difficult
It was a joke, simmer down...
Also, I agreed, that's one way you could go about it. Not the way I'd personally go about it, but it's certainly 'a way' to go about it. If you can keep their attention long enough, why not!
I'm sure they'd love to hear all about it, washed down with a hot cup of maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sorry I can't help myself, lol. Keep it simple - good old carrot & stick, just don't be too heavy handed with the stick. For me, that's perm removal when a tiered approach works.
PS: when I say carrot & stick I mean 'give and take' don't actually hit them with a stick, lol. They're far too flimsy! (joking of course). Bob says:
SlR said :
Harry Potter and The Sunken Cost Fallacy, that might put them to sleep, but yeah. Maybe!
Good grief, you explain it in an age-appropriate way similar to death, sex, being annoying, and anything else.
I assumed you were an adult, so I used the proper word instead.
I'd assume the same but you're making it difficult
It was a joke, simmer down...
Also, I agreed, that's one way you could go about it. Not the way I'd personally go about it, but it's certainly 'a way' to go about it. If you can keep their attention long enough, why not!
I'm sure they'd love to hear all about it, washed down with a hot cup of maslow's hierarchy of needs. Sorry I can't help myself, lol. Keep it simple - good old carrot & stick, just don't be too heavy handed with the stick. For me, that's perm removal when a tiered approach works.
PS: when I say carrot & stick I mean 'give and take' don't actually hit them with a stick, lol. They're far too flimsy! (joking of course). Bob says:
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24-Mar-2023 14:13:32 - Last edited on 24-Mar-2023 21:45:48 by SlR
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