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Perm punishments cannot be undone or forgiven really, not when there were alternatives available. Depending on the child, you could really mess up the relationship with them by doing such a thing
100% agree with you on that one. I believe punishments should start from low and gradually scale high, if bad behaviour continues. There always must be a direct consequence derived from your actions, but alternatives should be negotiated according to age and maturity. Otherwise, no learning will take place and probably the punished person will do exactly the opposite.
I was raised in a mildly conservative (liberal conservative?) family, that allowed some liberty but this one was granted through actions. You could say it was "half good, half bad". Parents let me play videogames while doing good at school and do house helping (rule was broken, there was a consequence), I could play Heavy Metal music with discret volume and they tolerated my teenager outfit choices (New Rock Boots and gothic attire, go figure) as long as it looked clean and it didn't break etiquette code at some formal places.
Kinda like a win-win situation, now that I remember all of this. It wasn't so bad
The only big "NO" without any chance of negotiation, was tattoos and piercings. Yup, it was too much for papa and mama
long story short:
"You can modify your body when you reach legal age (16 in Spain with parental approval, 18 without any hasle) to do so and you'll have to use your own money... so start thinking what job you'll take during summer"
Summer ended and looking at my savings, I decided to spend it on another matter. I was like "Could it be? They totally knew I would change my mind during the last second. I hate my parents, but I love them more... AARGH!"
Perm punishments cannot be undone or forgiven really, not when there were alternatives available. Depending on the child, you could really mess up the relationship with them by doing such a thing
100% agree with you on that one. I believe punishments should start from low and gradually scale high, if bad behaviour continues. There always must be a direct consequence derived from your actions, but alternatives should be negotiated according to age and maturity. Otherwise, no learning will take place and probably the punished person will do exactly the opposite.
I was raised in a mildly conservative (liberal conservative?) family, that allowed some liberty but this one was granted through actions. You could say it was "half good, half bad". Parents let me play videogames while doing good at school and do house helping (rule was broken, there was a consequence), I could play Heavy Metal music with discret volume and they tolerated my teenager outfit choices (New Rock Boots and gothic attire, go figure) as long as it looked clean and it didn't break etiquette code at some formal places.
Kinda like a win-win situation, now that I remember all of this. It wasn't so bad
The only big "NO" without any chance of negotiation, was tattoos and piercings. Yup, it was too much for papa and mama
long story short:
"You can modify your body when you reach legal age (16 in Spain with parental approval, 18 without any hasle) to do so and you'll have to use your own money... so start thinking what job you'll take during summer"
Summer ended and looking at my savings, I decided to spend it on another matter. I was like "Could it be? They totally knew I would change my mind during the last second. I hate my parents, but I love them more... AARGH!"
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16-Mar-2023 22:44:41
I've never had anything like this happen and I've lived alone for a while time.
I do remember when I did do things wrong I used to get sent to bed with no supper. If I did something really bad then Firday pocket money day I got sod all.
My parents used to get mad when I first got internet. I was always logged into it and they could not phone me. They came round to my flat kicking the shit out of my door shouting get off that bloody internet. Been trying to call you all day lol. That was funny.
Other then that. Nope nothing.
PS. Enjoy the glue for a week. Comprehensive Account Security
I do remember when I did do things wrong I used to get sent to bed with no supper. If I did something really bad then Firday pocket money day I got sod all.
My parents used to get mad when I first got internet. I was always logged into it and they could not phone me. They came round to my flat kicking the shit out of my door shouting get off that bloody internet. Been trying to call you all day lol. That was funny.
Other then that. Nope nothing.
PS. Enjoy the glue for a week. Comprehensive Account Security
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17-Mar-2023 12:59:31 - Last edited on 17-Mar-2023 12:59:49 by Tuffty
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