There are currently no known, exact causes of adult ADHD. However, there could be a number of factors that contributes to the development of ADD which varies depending on the individual. Currently, there is no medical lab or blood test for the disorders, but scientific behavioural assessment measures have been utilised and supported by decades of research.
Recent research suggests that genetics and heritability substantially contributes to an individual's susceptibility of eventual diagnosis of ADHD.
Maintaining relationships can be a challenge for individuals with ADHD but here are some ways we can help our friends with ADHD:
• Recognise that this is beyond your control. When your friends are exhibiting some of the symptoms of ADHD, you may find yourself getting frustrated. Breathe, and remind yourself that it's not their choice to behave in that manner. Exercise patience.
• Forgiveness. Individuals with ADHD make mistakes more often. Do your best to be forgiving rather than adopting a mindset that they are lazy or negligent.
• Education. It's important to equip yourself with more information about ADHD to help you better understand your friend's condition and the challenges they may be experiencing.
• Medication. If you are comfortable, encourage your friend to consume their medications and stick to the treatment plan. If your friend decides to stop taking them, encourage them to seek a doctor immediately for a review. It can be dangerous if your friend suddenly ceases medication.
• Structure. Individuals with ADHD benefit from structure. So, encourage your friend to establish a schedule and follow it. You can give them diaries to pen which can be online or an app, so that it's convenient for them.
• Connect. Individuals with ADHD may find it challenging to keep in touch with their friends, so set aside some time to connect with them on a regular basis.
• If you're in a relationship with someone with ADHD, try things differently instead of harder. Adopt more ADHD-friendly strategies and understand how ADHD operates. This may require a change of perspective.
It's important to keep these things in mind when dealing with friends or family who seem 'different' in any way. It's very easy to slip into thinking
"Oh they're just being irrational about ___, what a jerk"
, but in many cases there's something else going on.
I'm guilty of this, and I've even done it when interacting with people who I knew had a history of mental illness. If you've only known someone while they're doing well, it can be confusing and difficult if any of their issues resurface.
The natural instinct (in my opinion) is to assume there's a logical reason for any issues, but if you do that when dealing with someone who is depressed/bipolar/etc. it's just going make you resent them & cause even more problems for everyone involved.
Don't be too hard on yourself! The most important thing is the lesson. It could also be that in the past, we did not have as much information or awareness about mental illnesses and so stigmas were very much prevalent.
Thank you for your support and sharing with us, Phil!
I have an SSI claim out as an adult (not SSDI as I don't work). So they sent a letter a few days ago to have us call the Social Security number ASAP, we am presuming for more information about my disability. My dad will call tomorrow and we are hopeful it will be approved. I've been rejected out of the blue when I was approved as a kid (happened 8 months after I turned 18). So can anyone tells me what this most likely means? I have Autisum spectrum, Epilepsy (which typically give me grama seizure several times a year), and Social Anxiety Disorder. Will my past rejection influence this upcoming decision?
When I was became suddenly rejected in the past, it was because they "considered me no longer disabled".
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This sounds like a legal question and since we're not allied health professionals, let alone we don't really know you, it's hard to say. Which country are you in? When you say SSI, are you referring to Settlement Services International for refugee settlement?
This sounds like a legal question and since we're not allied health professionals, let alone we don't really know you, it's hard to say. Which country are you in? When you say SSI, are you referring to Settlement Services International for refugee settlement?
Social Security Income support, judging from his post, in which case he's in the US.
@Scoper. Not knowing anything more than what you've said here, I can't really offer any input, and I don't really suggest you say anything more on that specific matter, as it's very much a security liability for you to post about things like government income support matters on an open forum, putting yourself very much at risk.
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This sounds like a legal question and since we're not allied health professionals, let alone we don't really know you, it's hard to say. Which country are you in? When you say SSI, are you referring to Settlement Services International for refugee settlement?
Social Security Income support, judging from his post, in which case he's in the US.
@Scoper. Not knowing anything more than what you've said here, I can't really offer any input, and I don't really suggest you say anything more on that specific matter, as it's very much a security liability for you to post about things like government income support matters on an open forum, putting yourself very much at risk.
Hey Scoper, I very much agree with Jack here! The forums is not the place to be seeking this type of information. Hopefully there is someone you can discuss these issues with you, such as your dad! I wish you all the best!
Nice thread
I just love people who make threads that exudes positive energiez :3
Talking about stress... I believe Hong Kong, where I'm born, is no doubt one of the cities in the world where people here are under extremely high pressure for men and women, young and old alike Q.Q In a nutshell, people here are pushed to their very limits, both physically and mentally everyday!
It's sometimes depressing to know that I'm living in a place where our brain gets bombarded everyday. But then I would think - ain't I lucky that I'm not born somewhere where war rages? Shouldn't I be grateful that I'm not born in the era where humans didn't have such freedom, knowledge and convenience that we're having? It's really just a matter of perspective. You could choose to view things negatively, or you can choose to pick another way around. When I feel sad, I would take a moment to calm down and try thinking the other way round. If I'm stuck, I would put it all behind and do something else to distract myself. But I found what works best would be telling your worries and feelings to your family members, social workers or anyone you trust. Even just make a post here will work too xD Just don't be afraid to say your feelings aloud. Keeping it all to yourself won't help at all, cuz this is how the human brain works, men and women alike xD
If you're at the stage where you feel you're useless and your death won't bring any influence, then maybe try to learn about Buddhism's philosophy (not the religion itself). It's kind of helped me to keep myself up
Life has no meaning itself - it is you who make the meaning out of it.
From my understanding, Hong Kong serves to be a highly-stressed environment.
Somewhere in my life, I found myself facing a mountain of challenges. I tried to adopt some of the Buddhist philosophies, if not, the spiritual teachings or meditation techniques, into my life. I absolutely recommend meditation for everyone!