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It normally begins with me by having an awkward conversation in person and then becoming comfortable with the person and begin talking to them on a daily basis. This is how it usually is for me, especially at the beginning of a school year and I have to sit next to them.
I've met most of my friends from elementary school but I only regularly hang out with a few of them. Most friends I know now are through that one best friend I've had since around fourth grade, we've known each other through basketball (3-4 of us, when I used to play) and now there's an additional 1-2 who we go out with.
"See-Anne"
I've met most of my friends from elementary school but I only regularly hang out with a few of them. Most friends I know now are through that one best friend I've had since around fourth grade, we've known each other through basketball (3-4 of us, when I used to play) and now there's an additional 1-2 who we go out with.
05-Dec-2013 19:21:51
Of my 10 current friends (lol;_
I met one of them because he ddosed me and another who ratted me. Other than a few I met from my clan the rest of them I probably met following an argument.
I argue a lot. Maybe this is why I have no friends.
I met one of them because he ddosed me and another who ratted me. Other than a few I met from my clan the rest of them I probably met following an argument.
I argue a lot. Maybe this is why I have no friends.
16-Dec-2013 21:40:59
Respecting each other for their differences, caring about the other unconditionally, willing to take the bad days with the good, and the main ingredient is trust.
How often I hear, " but they were my best friend! ". Well guess what, they really were not if they can turn their back on you or harm you. They never really were. A big difference between hang out buddies and real friends.
~ Mrs ~ "
How often I hear, " but they were my best friend! ". Well guess what, they really were not if they can turn their back on you or harm you. They never really were. A big difference between hang out buddies and real friends.
~ Mrs ~ "
When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace.
"
~ Jimi Hendrix ~
20-Dec-2013 16:42:25
MrsWetlander
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Respecting each other for their differences, caring about the other unconditionally, willing to take the bad days with the good, and the main ingredient is trust.
How often I hear, " but they were my best friend! ". Well guess what, they really were not if they can turn their back on you or harm you. They never really were. A big difference between hang out buddies and real friends.
~ Mrs *
That's why my friends are close. If they've already done the worst they can to me everything else is a +
Respecting each other for their differences, caring about the other unconditionally, willing to take the bad days with the good, and the main ingredient is trust.
How often I hear, " but they were my best friend! ". Well guess what, they really were not if they can turn their back on you or harm you. They never really were. A big difference between hang out buddies and real friends.
~ Mrs *
That's why my friends are close. If they've already done the worst they can to me everything else is a +
20-Dec-2013 19:07:09
yeah.. Ya know you gotta take the good with the bad. If we were all the same life would be pretty darn boring now wouldn't it? L0L ! But some your more drawn to than others, due to interests and such. There is a huge difference between acquaintances and friends, and then even " best friends ".
I myself have thought someone was a friend, or a best friend even, only to find out later it was one sided. The true test is in trust, and knowing that person has your back always, just like you do for them, even if you disagree on things.
I have even recently had some say, " so I guess we are not friends anymore " after they told me something that they knew would upset me. And my reply was.. " well, do you quit your family just because you don't agree? ". Of course we don't.
We work thru it. And respect we are not exact molds. And we are honest about it to each other. This doesn't just apply to dating, marriage, or any of those types of relationships. It applies to true friendship as well.
~ Mrs ~ "
I myself have thought someone was a friend, or a best friend even, only to find out later it was one sided. The true test is in trust, and knowing that person has your back always, just like you do for them, even if you disagree on things.
I have even recently had some say, " so I guess we are not friends anymore " after they told me something that they knew would upset me. And my reply was.. " well, do you quit your family just because you don't agree? ". Of course we don't.
We work thru it. And respect we are not exact molds. And we are honest about it to each other. This doesn't just apply to dating, marriage, or any of those types of relationships. It applies to true friendship as well.
~ Mrs ~ "
When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace.
"
~ Jimi Hendrix ~
20-Dec-2013 19:19:24 - Last edited on 20-Dec-2013 19:20:15 by MrsWetlander
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