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Possible Poacher, Advice?
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I've never understood why so many people on here seem to have so much of an issue with 'poaching'.
Clan membership is (or should be) an optional thing to develop friendships and build communities - if someone is happy in a clan, they're not going to leave because an ex-member suggests it.
If they do leave, then either they're clearly not getting what they want from being part of your clan, and it's better for both of you.
It strikes me as akin to trying to prohibit your partner from socialising without you "in case they leave you for someone else" - trust is a fundamental cornerstone of any successful relationship, and clans are just the same.
If having a high membership count is more important to you than your members actually wanting to stay in your clan, perhaps you should be asking yourself why you made a clan in the first place.
I've never understood why so many people on here seem to have so much of an issue with 'poaching'.
Clan membership is (or should be) an optional thing to develop friendships and build communities - if someone is happy in a clan, they're not going to leave because an ex-member suggests it.
If they do leave, then either they're clearly not getting what they want from being part of your clan, and it's better for both of you.
It strikes me as akin to trying to prohibit your partner from socialising without you "in case they leave you for someone else" - trust is a fundamental cornerstone of any successful relationship, and clans are just the same.
If having a high membership count is more important to you than your members actually wanting to stay in your clan, perhaps you should be asking yourself why you made a clan in the first place.
I get that you had a moment & thought you'd stumbled into some clarity, but it's based on an assumption that nobody here has brought up.
I haven't seen a single person here say they have a problem with this.
It isn't a revelation for any leaders here that if your clan is good ppl will stay.
For most of us it goes even further, I don't think any of us want people in our clan if they don't want to be there.
So you've come at this from the wrong direction.
I'd ask you why you don't advertise for others to come into your cc & recruit?
That would be silly wouldn't it.
I'd ask you what you'd say to someone who came into your cc & asked if they could use it to recruit?
If your answer would be "GO ahead!!!", then you've earned your position up there on that high horse .
If the answer would be "Lolz no", then get back down here with the rest of us
I say that with love coz I think part of you knew you were really tackling a separate issue there <3
Nice work Lisaa
Glad you could resolve it without banning, & that you'll ban at the next misuse of your clan chat.
I haven't seen a single person here say they have a problem with this.
It isn't a revelation for any leaders here that if your clan is good ppl will stay.
For most of us it goes even further, I don't think any of us want people in our clan if they don't want to be there.
So you've come at this from the wrong direction.
I'd ask you why you don't advertise for others to come into your cc & recruit?
That would be silly wouldn't it.
I'd ask you what you'd say to someone who came into your cc & asked if they could use it to recruit?
If your answer would be "GO ahead!!!", then you've earned your position up there on that high horse .
If the answer would be "Lolz no", then get back down here with the rest of us
I say that with love coz I think part of you knew you were really tackling a separate issue there <3
Nice work Lisaa
Glad you could resolve it without banning, & that you'll ban at the next misuse of your clan chat.
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27-Feb-2016 03:37:31 - Last edited on 27-Feb-2016 03:43:35 by CuddleBucket
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