still thinking about ways I can help you with this, and I'm not gonna top saying that texans who drive trucks are "truckers" cause thats damn funny (all texans drive trucks, and we're just texans), but it occurs to me that the problem is the lack of polish to your expressed grievance.
there is this thing:
Fallacy of Relative Privation
and its been recently disputed enough that its had its wiki entries and stuff jumbled around, but its most commonly expressed these days as the social network snark "
first world problems
" and it used to be "
what about the children starving in africa
" and its a long known logical fallacy for purpose of debate, because kinda like a strawman it leaves the confines of the prompt and response. I do it all the time when I see it being done always didactically pressing the idea that the reason we shouldn't use logical fallacies is that once you use one, then all of them are fair game, and I can sometimes sit with a list of logical fallacies and try to use them all.
So... if yer old lady does something like... makes you go back out to get the little girl ice cream even though she been barfing all day and can't eat it, then y'know... try surrendering that women are mysterious and wonderful, and that we can't begin to understand them. You don't want to be all like "rawr! misandry is real! women hate us!" cause it ain't true. Analogous to that little girl who wants ice cream that she can't eat... yer gonna get a bunch of ladies who want victories legislated that they won't unite to fight for, and... you gotta listen to that too. Its just hard to be them, and you will look a lot more manly taking that on the chops than railing back at it.
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