Okay - I'm a parent - I did childcare for years - and I LOVE spicy foods and did as a kid.
So for myself - my dad gave us taco bell sauce packets as kids and tobasco sauce. He encouraged us to try the sauce. I was the only one who liked it at all. He never forced us to eat it.
If it was spicy - I wanted to try it. I love spicy bbq sauces - spicy buffalo chicken - some jalapeno stuff - and stuffed jalapenos. For me- it's all about the flavor balance.
Also many people make the mistake of 'trying the smallest pepper' thinking it won't be so bad. The smaller ones are hotter than larger ones.
I offer kids the chance to try stuff and warn them it's spicy and have milk ready. With one kid, I put hotsauce on a spoon - a tiny dot and put his ice cream on top - well, he stopped eating ice cream for 3 months... lol.
My child I was slower to introduce spice too - mostly because that same hotsauce ice cream kid - he's 4 and my child is 2. The 4 year old whines that everything is spicy. Even basic stuff - he just any strong flavor and since he's 4 - the only good word he can use to describe any strong flavor - is spicy. He tells his little sister and my 2 year old 'don't eat that - it's spicy'. The 2 year olds call everything they hate spicy now - even water... which is obviously not spicy.
My 2 year old and I frequent a restaurant with a mildly spicy bbq chicken. I never offered or served it. My child asked me to try it and - amazingly - just like me - likes it. And I;ll offer it now and most of the time, it's eaten.
I do not personally know, nor ever heard of anyone spicing formula, or demanding their child eat spicy food and suffer. I think once kids reach a certain age- they develop the abilty to communicate what they do and do not like, and it goes from there.
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05-Apr-2022 12:48:47