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FiFi LaFeles

FiFi LaFeles

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Stoat King said :
I'm a programmer / analyst too. The type they keep locked in a back room lol.
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Probably for the best :P
I'm happy for you to borrow my commode any time. Mates Rates.

Seriously though - that exchange you had with a colleague - I would find that funny to receive rather than 'an attitude problem'. Maybe that points to me having an attitude problem too .....
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25-Jan-2021 17:45:41

NexOrigin

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Averia Light said :
Haha, it took years of "sensitivity training" to be successful at meetings and dealing with people. I wasn't rude, but I am painfully socially awkward. Fuck that. If someone has an issue with the way you conduct yourself, then THEY need the sensitivity training to stop being so sensitive. I'm better than you, but that doesn't mean you're not great! :)

25-Jan-2021 21:17:42

Aeroxmaster

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NexOrigin said :
Averia Light said :
Haha, it took years of "sensitivity training" to be successful at meetings and dealing with people. I wasn't rude, but I am painfully socially awkward. Fuck that. If someone has an issue with the way you conduct yourself, then THEY need the sensitivity training to stop being so sensitive.

Depends on the behaviour exhibited. Arguably it could be pathological for someone to be in denial about how their behaviour affects others, or to leave themselves in such a situation where people continue to express problems with it and you haven't challenged the behaviour from the others appropriately and sufficiently.

25-Jan-2021 23:06:16

Averia Light

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Ehhh, I don't relate to people at all. My interpersonal skills suck, but I slide by on my technical skills. How I get by is deflecting and reflecting everything back onto whoever is talking to me and keep the focus on them. Because, to be honest, I'm a jaded and broody character.

#emo4lyfe #linkinpark #lonewolf #avoidantdismissive #donttrustasoul

But for real, my avoidant personality disorder matched with agoraphobia and my avoidant dismissive attachment style makes me a real (avoidant) peach and I needed the sensitivity training and all the metaphorical kicks. I'm still a piece of work, sure, but it is well hidden behind an overly positive and "you" focused communication style at work. A lot still needs to change for me behind the scenes before I can take the next step in my career, but at this point it is just me holding myself back and I have to change. Zoloft also helps lmao. And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known

26-Jan-2021 01:56:14 - Last edited on 26-Jan-2021 02:01:20 by Averia Light

Brigantia

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So, I tried to log into an old FB account and of course I got locked out now.

They want a photo ID as opposed to like... anything flipping else. .-.

Any tips? I don't wanna give an ID, and it's not even my real name on the account. D: BUT IT IS MY ACCOUNT
Arrr! Only th' Devil an' I know th' where'bouts o' me treasure, an' th' one o' us who lives th' longes' should take i' all.


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26-Jan-2021 11:52:07

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