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I personally find the word hard to stomach for several reasons. Some of which I can tell you and some I can't tell you about for very personal reasons.
So here goes. Wish me luck as this is very hard to type out for me.
My Mother had cancer 3 times and in the end she died in 2005 due to shit doctors and nurses. We as a family were gutted because all the doctors told her she would be ok. They lied through their teeth to cover up a botched job removing a tumor. While removing it they burst it and didn't have the balls to tell my mam anything and kept saying she is fine. It wasn't until a year or so later when she got another lump. They then told her she had a few months left. We were gutted because of the lies and cover ups of the quacks. Now I didn't find this out until last year when my Dad was dying of cancer too. On his death bed he told me everything that happened to my mam and when I found out I was so angry I punched the hospital wall and the dint should still be there.
My Dad passed away last year due to complications of the treatment he had. He tried his very best to fight it but sadly he lost that fight. Just wiping tears away. So to see the word used on the forums really does hurt peoples feelings. I know Nexus meant no harm whatsoever and I totally get what he was after with the thread title but everybody has to understand seeing the word used brings back so many distressing memories of loved 1's we have lost or are losing.
Making this post has really got to me and I can feel the tears now. But I had to post telling you the reasons why I trully hate seeing that
Wow, ok. I'm really sorry to hear about your parents.
I think it is a reasonable change since someone in the community has been so profoundly impacted. I mean, after reviewing this, it is just a matter of being kind to others within the community as opposed to fighting off the idea that it might offend some stranger. And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known
I personally find the word hard to stomach for several reasons. Some of which I can tell you and some I can't tell you about for very personal reasons.
So here goes. Wish me luck as this is very hard to type out for me.
My Mother had cancer 3 times and in the end she died in 2005 due to shit doctors and nurses. We as a family were gutted because all the doctors told her she would be ok. They lied through their teeth to cover up a botched job removing a tumor. While removing it they burst it and didn't have the balls to tell my mam anything and kept saying she is fine. It wasn't until a year or so later when she got another lump. They then told her she had a few months left. We were gutted because of the lies and cover ups of the quacks. Now I didn't find this out until last year when my Dad was dying of cancer too. On his death bed he told me everything that happened to my mam and when I found out I was so angry I punched the hospital wall and the dint should still be there.
My Dad passed away last year due to complications of the treatment he had. He tried his very best to fight it but sadly he lost that fight. Just wiping tears away. So to see the word used on the forums really does hurt peoples feelings. I know Nexus meant no harm whatsoever and I totally get what he was after with the thread title but everybody has to understand seeing the word used brings back so many distressing memories of loved 1's we have lost or are losing.
Making this post has really got to me and I can feel the tears now. But I had to post telling you the reasons why I trully hate seeing that
Wow, ok. I'm really sorry to hear about your parents.
I think it is a reasonable change since someone in the community has been so profoundly impacted. I mean, after reviewing this, it is just a matter of being kind to others within the community as opposed to fighting off the idea that it might offend some stranger. And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known
06-Dec-2018 12:47:32 - Last edited on 06-Dec-2018 12:48:14 by Averia Light
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