I've made a point of emphasis to stop messaging ex's. I used to apologize for everything, even stuff that I never did but got accused of, and really it wasn't worth it. Looking forward has been sooooo much better than looking back and wondering about the what-if's.
I didn't really miss this, he was always nice to me but still, it feels so awkward to me.
I don't just want to tell him to stop considering he tries to be nice to me but something about it just feels a bit wrong.