Lnkmiegel - This is not a situation which we can resolve here. I understand that you have posted to Moderation Review earlier, but this is one that will need to continue to be resolved there, as it is concerning the actions of another Forum Mod. Thanks for your understanding.
Lnkmiegel - The FMR thread mainly exists for the exact purposes you posted here, to request a review of actions taken by a specific FMod in a specific instance. That's the main reason why I redirected you there; there isn't anything I can do from here to make amends to the situation and the JMods who review the FMR thread can make the decision and (hopefully) the final say. I'm sorry if you feel you have been sent in circles.