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Lunar Haruka
Dec Member 2023

Lunar Haruka

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Bruce Waayne said :
Lunar Haruka said :
Bruce Waayne said :
Id be embarissed to be on unemployment.

That explains why you try to attack it, out of fear and shame. Be accepting not just of others but of yourself, should you find yourself in a reality that doesn't match what you just said. After all, people do not enjoy their state (if it's forced/imposed) and they thought and acted 1000 times before you to stop it, it's simple logic. They also don't have the mind as clear as a person that's doing all right.

Also be careful not to lose your soul clinging to unhappy and unfulfilling work conditions just so "you are not a nobody unemployed", that also explains the disdain towards people not suffering the enslavement you may feel you are.

If you are able to work and you WANT to work. You will find work. Facts.

Uhm I'm sure many people believed that but didnt turn out to be true for them. If you stated you would feel embarrassed just by the thought, imagine those souls living their nightmare and finding out the foolproof solution they had doesnt work.

What do you propose? The situation as it could stand would be:
-Person lived and worked in balance
-Person loses work, loses balance
-Person wants to regain balance, doesn't like the situation
-Person attempts to be reemployed
-Person fails, doesnt know what to do
-Person has yet to solve the problem and the solution given didnt work out
-[The outcomes from this part on are highly variable]

Maybe your point stands that the attempt to be reemployed will always succeed. I cannot argue with the belief itself, but I have witnessed many cases of the rule not applying, and that's where the problem begins. Some people will live a reality different from your belief, most will have tried your method by now -several times and rechecked - Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there

11-Apr-2022 05:47:36 - Last edited on 11-Apr-2022 05:54:42 by Lunar Haruka

Lunar Haruka
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Lunar Haruka

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Honestly I can't and shouldn't try to force what I believe is accepting and of better human quality.

It's good to have ideas and opinions/beliefs but other people also have them, and their reality will not be the same than what we think is.

If I have to use logic again, I simply don't believe anyone can go through such a hard time for something they dont bother doing. If anything, whiners will ask for lazy solutions, like being given either money or no responsibility work and will not be distressed at all, simply whining trying to snap their fingers and see if anyone serves. People going through real distress will have exhausted their options and poured a huge deal of mental energy and many other things for the problem being even worse than before.

So using logic, the pain people claim to feel makes sense with the outlook of the situation and the will to have something important change, as they care about it. It is illogical that people will crumble over something hardly put any effort into. Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there

11-Apr-2022 06:04:16

Lunar Haruka
Dec Member 2023

Lunar Haruka

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ToP BaSS said :
Lunar Haruka said :


Are you willing to transmute sadism and mutual destruction or will you justify your behavior further?

Your tendency to read into posts more than is actually present then offer over the top criticism based on personal fantasy conclusions is more amusing that helpful and very telling.
Op is asking for "opinions" yet you unjustifiably cast aspersions at those opinions.

Hey! Important topics demand important answers.

Well why dont you look over what you said and see how people felt and if it helped anybody?

Also my question stands unanswered. Dont feel pressured, it doesnt have to be texted. It's more for your thoughts and self deliberation. Avoiding it can be done but I don't reccomend. Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there

11-Apr-2022 06:11:44

Lunar Haruka
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Lunar Haruka

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Aeroxmaster said :
There are many factors that can result in unemployment:

- Lack of businesses and job opportunities in the local area
- Business restructuring
- Health problems
- Lack of education and skills
- Climate in a country, such as covid-19

What are your opinions on unemployment and how does it affect your area and people you know? Also, is covid-19 affecting employment in your area/country?

Hmm well working has a lot of unwritten rules and etiquette. Sometimes people dont have quick ways to find work, heres a few examples:
-General beauty: given that anyone heard of pretty women succeeding in any job interview. Well it's not only physical beauty, but also ways of approaching people, the voice tone, conversational skills. Visible traits considered ugly take off points, consciously or not.
-Selling yourself: some people will have this card to play as an ace and for others it'll be their bane. It's all about charisma and convincing power. Many people are introverted and shine once they trust and can be very loyal, but lose many opportunities charismatic people easily win over by first impression.
-Adapting to unjust standards: it's somewhat rare, but more common as of late. Some interviewers make standardized questions that wont look for the truth in the person, rather have a "Good profile/bad profile". Say, if you dont know your age, then you are irresponsible, or if you dont know what your life will be like in 10 years you're disloyal. It's a complex one, but a person can be loyal even if they work 1 year for you and will have their way of scheduling if numbers arent their thing.
-Experience: employers ask for lots of years experience in places. Not everyone has that, some people got many jobs they found or havent gotten to work yet. It speaks bad of the employer to judge from that alone.
Maybe theres more, but I think rest is up to you, I've posted a lot about this topic and hope it's for something good! Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there

11-Apr-2022 06:28:25

Inspire you

Inspire you

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High Risk Work.

If you aren't educated & are able bodied, it's the only option out of poverty.

Either go high and clean windows or construct buildings, or go down & dive. Salvaging would be a prime job for any laymen/women.

If you ain't got a cure for cancer, the world ain't going to miss you. Of course your close ones' will, but you get the picture. Another renegade Rat-Lord from the Master pond of scum.

11-Apr-2022 07:56:01

ToP BaSS

ToP BaSS

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Lunar Haruka said :


Well why dont you look over what you said and see how people felt and if it helped anybody?

OP asked for opinions not help.
You can fool yourself into believing you are helping but in reality if you are just virtue signalling it can not possibly help other than in your misguided mind.
Practical analysis of options that are not candy coated or smother unemployed in cotton wool will be a harsh reality that some can not take. in the end it is all that is available.

vis-à-vis......
Short term employment - knock on lots of doors -
Mid term employment - make many applications with CV if needed-
Long term employment - get an education/training and specialize.

No employment - sit around and gripe about being unemployed.

11-Apr-2022 09:29:27

Fairy Haruka

Fairy Haruka

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Oh wow ... my dear Nymph was right

I can't help but feel so sad ...

Ultimately, it's life and doesn't have true rules. I have been unemployed myself so I found unexplainably the force I needed to go on, and I learned to accept myself because I really wanted to work above all else. But it also taught me a lot since I also believed nobody was out of work if they wanted to work. It was extremely painful but also humbling.

I feel it's similar to people wanting babies and not getting them or single people looking for someone else, sometimes it just doesn't come, people can be judgmental if they want, but I don't think they truly know what they talk about and really don't matter anymore if you're strong and confident, but can cause a lot of harm on weaker people. Unemployment suicide exists like my world Nymph says, look it up, I considered it several times even, in part because few understood I didn't want to not work and feel I was starving only living off people helping me and leeching off their resources. Even a meal my parents made made me feel bad, when they were giving knowing I needed the help! I'm surprised I made it out since I had really low vitality to do anything, like living on a 3% battery every day.

Life is ... life. I think you will understand it either if you go through it yourself or if you listen and have a chat with the person suffering from it, have a coffee with them, give a hug if they need, I don't know. Destiny might smile on them someday and be back on their feet and will appreciate you giving that little bit of light in the mist they're going through. And if you were a close one don't blame 'em if you turned their back on them and now they're all right won't trust you anymore.

I wish we could make eye contact and let our expressions speak for themselves without any words.

I'm also a bit puzzled as to why there's anger in the air and obstinacy when people spoke their heart out here. Don't be afraid to speak your heart out too! Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I'll be there

11-Apr-2022 23:35:05

Averia Light

Averia Light

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The older I get, the more I realize that unemployment shouldn't have negative connotations.

I have been flirting with the idea of being unemployed for years now. My husband encourages it, actually, but I can't shake the feeling that if my husband dies and I have a gap on employment then I won't be able to get employment to sustain me and my daughter.

And I am pretty specialized in a lot of highly competitive fields. For instance, right now I am a Controller/developer/auditor/data analyst mix. I don't get paid a ton, but I can work from where ever at whatever time I want. I tried looking for part time, but in my field, there is no meaningful work for under 40 hours and the pay wouldn't be enough to cover daycare. So I'd basically just kill my career to go backwards if I worked part time.

So here I am, a parent/full time worker/student just juggling (and constantly dropping) all my responsibilities and really doing average in all areas of life. But unemployment isn't a real option either.

Sorry kinda rambling. I usually have a strict "no phones after 10" policy that I am clearly not following lolo.. idk ubi should exist for basic necessities and if someone wants more then they can work? And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known

02-Jun-2022 03:16:43 - Last edited on 02-Jun-2022 03:18:07 by Averia Light

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