BEING NICE
this is super important, and not actually something that comes naturally to me (I'm a terrible ogre irl), but its crucial to adopt being nice as a strategy to keep the game flowing, with delays expected when conflicts between learning and attention seeking... conflict. I love teaching pink hat moms to do this with text typed as we play, and those moms rock so steady once they know what they're doin. I even have a little taste now for reforming naughty behaviors of skulled wildy griefer types, but it requires some extra effort to convince them to adopt the same practices as the rest of the group. Making money is very persuasive. Everyone likes money.
I regularly play with people who began as griefers! No. Really. I do. Once they figured it out, and it took maybe as many as ten games in the worst cases... they bring AMAZING anti-griefing contributions to the game. Diversity is strength: believe it y'all.
Two lines of text to put on a card and tape to your monitor:
1. the words of the greatest leader the world has ever known, Marcus Aurelius, who taught his stoics "
if you can't blame yourself then blame no one
." If the shutter rises early... its my fault for not explaining when to open it. Not theirs. Try explaining again.
2. this will make sense later:
gas 202 ant 210 mid 225 pray 240
I have quit rsof because moderator found comments about darklight bonus damage on demons "off topic" for wildy flash mobs full of demons