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Shamantha444
Nov Member 2010

Shamantha444

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For anyone considering us please guest in chat a bit to see if the atmosphere of our chat is a good fit. Clannies have always liked to meet someone before invite which is the reason for our request. Our one req before invite is to read clan rules.

If you're looking for a good chat to visit without changing clans we we always welcome mature polite visitors so please stop in for awhile. :) Fealty Stars Clan Founding Owner, 20/04/2012

19-Feb-2020 14:39:23

Scouse
Feb Member 2018

Scouse

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Shamantha444 said :
For anyone considering us please guest in chat a bit to see if the atmosphere of our chat is a good fit. Clannies have always liked to meet someone before invite which is the reason for our request. Our one req before invite is to read clan rules.

If you're looking for a good chat to visit without changing clans we we always welcome mature polite visitors so please stop in for awhile. :)

Sham forgot to mention, we are awesome and possibly the best friends you will ever meet.

Much love

Scouse - Honesty is the best policy [qfc id=]whatever[/qfc]
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August 15th 2017, the day Jagex freed me
Liverpool is love, Liverpool is life

21-Feb-2020 23:30:39

IAntisocial

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-> You guys should follow your own rules better. I got invited inhope of beeing in a clan with not bullying since many members is "mature". First clan i ever been in since beginning of Runescape times. (Early 2000)

When i joined i got told about all the rules.
Good rules to keep the clan friendly and mature.
I thought i might feel good in your clan.

But some older members do not apply to your rules.
They forgot about them.

When i joined i rightaway said i do not like to chat.
And i got right. In beginning i was involved in the chat.
Then one day i said something people do not like , cause common thoughts in whole community is that. This and that is "fast".
I said one thing not to beeing a douche, just told my own opinion.

I said "Nothing is fast in Runescape".
Then whole chat jumped me and told me i am wrong.
And i tried to explain what i ment, and yet they kept going against me, how stupid i am.
That i could not have been around in Runescapes early days. Like that even matters.
I got jumped by EVERYONE. Old members, respected members, by everyone. Felt like i got bullied. And no one did anything about it. No one tried to meddle in this, "thing".
Like Runescape is about life and death.

One of your most respected members and also probably one of the staff of Fealty stars, told me, not in a nice tone, but sarcastical tone.
"Join my Twitch and you will see "fast"."
And all laught at me, like kids do when they bully someone.
I am 46 years old, i am entitled and have my rights as humanbeeing to have my own thoughts about all things in life. I have life experience. I do not deserved that kind of
treatment. People do not die cause i say something no one agrees to.
Fact is young people dies when they get bullied. Luckily i am not a young human.
Fact is no matter what age according to Fealty stars rules and human rights you are entitled to your own thoughts, without beeing bullied by whole chat. Clan chat.
In a clan that say in beginning when joining that you -> 45 year old fella

16-Apr-2020 19:35:31 - Last edited on 16-Apr-2020 19:37:37 by IAntisocial

IAntisocial

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-> MUST respect people. Treat people good.
Well i did not get treated well. One of the bullies few month later showed he is a bully, and no one did NOTHING, none of the staff och Fealty Stars stopped what i went through. I even had to leave clan cause of it.

Cause of first time i got bullied i hardly ever chatted.Then i said something that this one members who was bullying me first time also, got berserk on me.
Cause of a game. I did not even say a bad thing , and he jumped me like i am Belsebub.
And when i defended my self. People was shouting "drama queen".
No one tried to stop the situation. And i was only defending myself against unfair treatment.
Against someone braking clan rules. Not once but twice.
May i remind you all, it is only a game. Just cause i say things whole mass do not not like does not mean they are entitled to go berserk on me, and treat me like i am the devil.

Why did you guys not follow your own rules? Someone got bullied in chat and none of you did anything about it.
I left the clan and the bully is still there.
He won i lost.
So now i had to change my name, so i do not get bullied furter in the furture.

I did not say ANYTHING that should offend someone. But MANY members included the "respected" one said many things to hurt me.
Said bad things about me as human, not as a Runescape player. This bullying went from game, to IRL.
They said things about me that hurt, me Tom. Not my game alias "Noskills" (now IAntisocial).

I stopped chatting cause of first bully session. And none of you did nothing to enforce your rules, that bullying is not allowed. 45 year old fella

16-Apr-2020 19:38:08 - Last edited on 16-Apr-2020 20:05:04 by IAntisocial

Scouse
Feb Member 2018

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Sorry you had that experience Ian but i hear what you are saying, just went through a similar experience tonight and believe it or not i have been a member of the clan for many months, i have now reluctantly left the clan because of similar issues and probably because of the same apparent respected members.

All in all the clan is usually a great place to be but as you know there is a certain few that are seemingly ruining it for others.

I found that once i upset 1 person they decided to not like me and that 1 person seems to have an influence within the clan and once you fall into that abyss, you are done.

Much love

Scouse - The majority of the clan are amazing, it's just a shame some are ruining it. [qfc id=]whatever[/qfc]
#JFT96
August 15th 2017, the day Jagex freed me
Liverpool is love, Liverpool is life

18-Apr-2020 08:42:13

Shamantha444
Nov Member 2010

Shamantha444

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IAntisocial (Noskills) and Scouse thank you for your comments.

Noskills, I would have been happy to see complete un-edited screenshots of comments made to you by anyone in the clan regarding your allegations. That is normally how I deal with matters because screenies of complete convos usually provide clarity. I do not settle matters with he-said, she-said.

Both your narratives prove something I say all the time about Fealty Stars which is we are not a 'one size fits all' clan, and that our chat works for some not for others. Considering our size and diversity of players everyone gets along really well. Over time I've had some leave for greener pastures then return later because we're where they felt most at home.

I am sorry for how you perceived your experience while in the clan. I sincerely wish you both the best of luck finding a new environment where you both can enjoy the game to its fullest and are comfortable with the atmosphere of the clan of your respective choices.

Good luck in every aspect of your lives outside of game. Fealty Stars Clan Founding Owner, 20/04/2012

09-May-2020 16:02:56

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