I feel sad for those grouped into the norm of societal turn-on's.
They'll never experience the excitement brought upon by a whip, the cool metal of cuffs holding your wrists against a bed frame. Or even the gagging from dirty socks shoved into your mouth.
Honestly, it's pitiful that you people label others negatively for having such interests when you are content with living inside a box and are afraid of venturing outside of it.