@ Draco Burnz - That thread is making a suggestion regarding ironman mode. The OP just happens to be a female character and therefore is using the term ironwoman, as the first F Mod post to you explained. They are not saying there is any difference between ironmen or women in the restrictions they are finding in game and asking be changed. It is just the term they have chosen to use, as it fits their character better.
Your more recent post was hidden as you were continuing to ask about the differences between ironwomen and ironmen, which had already been explained was not the point. This continuation of you going off topic is what provoked the flame post you reported. Therefore both posts were hidden.
The point of that thread is that in OSRS, per the wiki "Ironmen (including iromwomen) may not access another player's house."