Therapists have been trying to get me off the idea that I need to constantly prep for the future for a long time. "A recession like that is unlikely" or "you can't enjoy life if you are always worried about the future".
It wasn't until I started talking to others that I realized that I am far from the only one with this kind of anxiety and it is only recently that therapists (and others) have changed their tune on the matter. The cost of living is increasing and wages adjusted for inflation have been stagnant for nearly as long as I have been alive. No shit that as time continues more people will struggle.
I mean, I live in a Midwest no-name town and I work as a controller/programmer/data analyst/auditor hybrid and my husband works as a mechanic/PLC programmer. We live in a 800 square foot box on maybe an eighth of an acre. I do count it as a blessing because I know so many other people can't even afford that. We aren't struggling, but childcare costs for us are around 20k, we eat in often, have cars that are older than 10 years, fix our own cars and house, do our own projects, etc... 6-7 years ago I paid 80k for my house. It is now somewhere in the 200-400k range with my neighbors houses being sold in that range.
I could go on, but this is a topic that you are absolutely correct on. Workers are really just in a race to the bottom and more and more people are struggling while profits are expanding. Nothing will probably happen in my lifetime, but what we have now is simply not sustainable.
And I swear I'm not going to let her know all the pain I have known
04-Jul-2022 19:34:48