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Ladyolake
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Here is what I want to know and talk about. When you as a leader are planning something like this and the other "High ranks" weather they earned the rank or helped you make the clan, are they as enthused about it as you?
So I guess I want to know as leaders, do you think other people care less or just expect you to do more?
Sounds to me like you have a second home online, you should definitely cherish that every single day.
You created it, you spent a lot of time and effort into the clan, it's your clan. It's your home.
I don't really think there's an answer to your question as you'll never know a players/members true intent. It's sort of like a guessing-game. But from personal experience, I don't think most people care as much as they show.
True friends, who care, stick with you through thick and thin. Those are really hard to come by these days. Whether you lean on them and how much, will be a big factor in how much they really care.
I had great friends and we had a fantastic time in our clan. I can still hear the words: "If you need some time, it's OK, we'll take care of clan." Only to end up in them sneaking out, so they could start their own clan which split up after a few months.
As CL, you are what keeps the clan going. It will always be your responsibility. And thus, you will be expected to do more than others. (Unless you're clever and know how to micro-manage.)
So while some, really do care, there are also those who are all face and perhaps have other motives than you might think. Pleasure in the job, puts perfection in the work.
Here is what I want to know and talk about. When you as a leader are planning something like this and the other "High ranks" weather they earned the rank or helped you make the clan, are they as enthused about it as you?
So I guess I want to know as leaders, do you think other people care less or just expect you to do more?
Sounds to me like you have a second home online, you should definitely cherish that every single day.
You created it, you spent a lot of time and effort into the clan, it's your clan. It's your home.
I don't really think there's an answer to your question as you'll never know a players/members true intent. It's sort of like a guessing-game. But from personal experience, I don't think most people care as much as they show.
True friends, who care, stick with you through thick and thin. Those are really hard to come by these days. Whether you lean on them and how much, will be a big factor in how much they really care.
I had great friends and we had a fantastic time in our clan. I can still hear the words: "If you need some time, it's OK, we'll take care of clan." Only to end up in them sneaking out, so they could start their own clan which split up after a few months.
As CL, you are what keeps the clan going. It will always be your responsibility. And thus, you will be expected to do more than others. (Unless you're clever and know how to micro-manage.)
So while some, really do care, there are also those who are all face and perhaps have other motives than you might think. Pleasure in the job, puts perfection in the work.
31-Mar-2017 01:56:42
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I'd be happy to support and share more of my story with you. I honestly felt chatting to other people alike helped me get through the hard times and keep my true friends close.
Drop me an add
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Drop me an add
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