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Dong U Dead

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My middle son came home Sunday evening from his father's stating his account was perm banned from Roblox today (Sunday). Monday after school my son was extra loud and bouncing all over the show because his father got his account back and I said how and he said because his father knew the right words. Knew what to say.

It's true, certain people can get away with murder as the saying goes. They have some kind of gift with words, with some people; I don't get it, I don't understand how these people do it.

At a job around 17years ago, I worked there for a few years. Two or three years later got married, moved cities when I found out my boss (school principal) was convicted for a crime/s dating back to the 70s. Anyway this man was the life of a party, good with jokes, good boss (overall), good teacher, lots of laughs, fun to be around, well liked. He was one of these people that got away with crime/s for over 20 years.

I feel it's these people that are good with words, know what to say, they are quick, intelligent, manipulative in a way that's not intrusive, they have this way with people. I find it hard to explain it, hopefully you know what I mean. It's these type people that get away with things for years, if not a life time.

It can be scary stuff if you get involved with these type people and things don't go there way. I think some people will be quite shocked at what these type people can do and do do if get triggered...
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14-Sep-2021 13:04:39

Nead
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Nead

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imo, working with similar people who've essentially done the job for decades, persuasion and deception are critical. They essentially blame a lifetime of mistakes on others, portraying themselves to become this far experienced and overall genuine and wise individual whom cannot seemingly do any wrong.

Correlating, there's suggestible data out there to indicate most serial killers are in-fact sociopaths to some degree usually brought on by past trauma.
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14-Sep-2021 15:27:37

A Shrubbery

A Shrubbery

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Nead said :
imo, working with similar people who've essentially done the job for decades, persuasion and deception are critical. They essentially blame a lifetime of mistakes on others, portraying themselves to become this far experienced and overall genuine and wise individual whom cannot seemingly do any wrong.

Correlating, there's suggestible data out there to indicate most serial killers are in-fact sociopaths to some degree usually brought on by past trauma.

I don't really think they all blame people for a lifetime of mistakes, sometimes a switch just goes off. I know in some cases as you have said past trauma can add to it. You can never truly know someone no matter what people think, no one truly knows what that person is hiding, or is capable of.

As for OP, there's a show on Netflix called Mindhunters, and gives you some insight to some of the stuff you were talking about, there's also some great documentaries on this subject.
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14-Sep-2021 23:54:21 - Last edited on 14-Sep-2021 23:55:00 by A Shrubbery

Nead
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Nead

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A Shrubbery said :

I don't really think they all blame people for a lifetime of mistakes, sometimes a switch just goes off. I know in some cases as you have said past trauma can add to it. You can never truly know someone no matter what people think, no one truly knows what that person is hiding, or is capable of.

Oh yes, you're absolutely correct. I probly' should've worded it a little different. It's certainly situational :P .
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15-Sep-2021 05:50:52

Wild Bill63

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I get what you're saying. I do not have the ability to communicate well lol people have tendency to misunderstand me even though I'm speaking plain english. I'm like hello? I say what I mean. I'm not rude, disrespectful, I pay attention and try to keep things simple. I know what I want to say but it seems my brain can't process those thoughts into actual words that would make sense to anyone else.

15-Sep-2021 06:50:37

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